The arrival of a new baby is a big event for the entire family, especially for older siblings. Preparing them in advance can help ease their transition and minimize feelings of jealousy or displacement. Talk to them about the baby's arrival, read books about becoming a big brother or sister, and involve them in preparations like choosing baby clothes or decorating the nursery. During labor, a sibling doula can provide dedicated care and attention, ensuring their routine is maintained and they feel secure. After the baby arrives, encourage them to help with simple tasks, praise their 'big sibling' efforts, and ensure they still receive one-on-one time with parents. Making them feel included and valued is crucial for a harmonious family adjustment.
